Jaime Jaynes, owner of Vespertine Boutique in Port Townsend.
Self-care is more than just bubble baths and getting enough sleep. Here at Vespertine, we’re ready for a new take on this trend — one that prioritizes your intimate health as well.
“Sexual health is something that is often not spoken about enough even though it plays a large part in our daily lives. It also has a strong impact on both our physiological and emotional health. I believe it’s time to shine a spotlight on the integral role it plays in our overall health, wellness, and happiness while working towards improving this aspect of our lives,” says Dr. Asif Luqman, MD, OB/GYN at Jefferson Healthcare Clinic.
When developing a self-care routine, it’s important to start small. To make it as easy as possible, we’ve put together a short list of ways to incorporate intimate health and wellness into your New Year’s self-care routines.
Routinely examining your breasts and genitalia keeps you in tune with your body and gives you the opportunity to check for abnormalities in between doctor visits.
The Penis Book by Aaron Spitz prominently features an easy-to-follow holistic five-step plan for optimum penis health. Breast: the Owners’s Manual by Dr. Kristi Funk is a comprehensive, practical, and accessible guide to breast health.
Now is also a great time to schedule your annual exams, including your breast and prostate exams if you’re over 40!
Invest in a good lube
As we get older, it’s normal for our body’s natural lubrication to diminish. Invest in your vaginal health with a quality personal lubricant that you can use anytime you need it. The Love Restore Moisturizing Vaginal Gel by Good Clean Love is formulated to mimic the body’s natural equilibrium with perfectly calibrated Ph levels, salt balance and the same type of beneficial lactic acid produced by healthy lactobacilli for a truly natural and healthy lubricating response.
Lubrication also plays an important role in caring for and protecting your skin. When moisture is lost our dermal layers become more vulnerable to infections as we age. Deciding between water-based, silicone-based, oil-based or hybrid lubricant can feel very tedious but finding the right one for you can improve your skin and make intimate activities more enjoyable. Experiment with different lubes in varying amounts to see what feels best to you. If you are planning on using condoms or toys, remember to choose a compatible product.
Your sensual self is essential to your wellbeing and deserves to be cared for too. Healthy sensual self-care activities can release oxytocin, often referred to as the body’s “love hormone” which is known to reduce stress and support physical and psychological health. In Sex For One, sex expert Betty Dodson takes the shame out of self-love by creating a straightforward and appealing guidebook.
Choosing an intimate toy can elevate your experience. Everyone experiences pleasure differently, so experimenting with different tools is the best way to discover what works for you.
The Majesty 2 Wand by Vush is designed for external use but there are no rules in the self love game, and all Vush toys are medical grade silicone so they are safe to use internally. Wands work their magic for all bodies, making them the perfect vibe for both solos or duets.
If you haven’t yet heard of “airflow technology” then welcome to this gamechanger. Like many other suction accessories on the market, the Aer by Dame uses airflow technology to stimulate the clitoris, which is how many people with vulvas reach climax fastest. We struggle to keep this toy in stock.
The Grip by Vedo is a one-of-a-kind rechargeable tool designed for men that features a powerful motor with 10 vibration modes. The super-soft silicone gripper with a textured glow-in-dark sleeve allows you to apply the friction you want.
Cleaning your vibes before and after each use is important to protect your body from unwanted germs and bacteria and to keep them in tip-top condition. One of our favorite cleansers is the Hand & Vibe Cleaner by Dame.
We encourage you to try something new in 2022! If you have any questions, visit Vespertine Boutique at 914 Water St. in Port Townsend, or call us at 360-344-2654.
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